ok so what no one tells you about bisexuality is that you don’t sit calmly and statically in the middle of the kinsey scale instead you’re swINGING ON A MOTHERFUCKING PENDULUM BACK AND FORTH HANGING ON FOR DEAR LIFE
What I’m thinking about right now.
As a bisexual woman, the sex that I have with straight men is a queer issue.
Some of the most dangerous & risky intimate / sexual situations that I’ve been in have involved cis / straight men. In those moments, my queer community turns away dismissively, if you choose to fuck straight guys, what do you expect?
Got my bifurious blood boiling!
things not to say regarding sexuality/orientation/identity
THIS THIS THIS
I flailed so hard when I saw this.
I say that intentionally.
I am not a lesbian. Not bi. Not straight. Not pan. Not gay.
I am queer. Intentionally. I intentionally use this term although others may apply.
Because being queer is political. It is fucking shit up. It is reconstructing broken elements. It is loving multiple sexes and genders and expressions, alone and simultaneously.
When I fuck my partner it is queer. When I am fucked it is queer. When I fuck myself it is queer.
My dress is just as queer as my combat boots.
I am always queer. Intentionally.
This is exactly how I am, dang.
I have often found that when people find out that I’m bisexual they think that it’s ‘hot’, that I must like threesomes. If I make out with a girl in public, guys seem to think that it is for their benefit. They think it is okay to hit on me, even if I indicate I’m not interested. They wouldn’t do that if I was making out with a guy. I was even sexually assaulted in a queer club because a guy saw me making out with a girl and assumed he had the right to my body. My sexuality has nothing to do with anyone else unless I want it to. Female sexuality is not solely for the pleasure and benefit of men, regardless of what porn may lead you to believe.
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